A writer writes, A reader reads.

I often find myself grappling with the notion of whether or not I truly identify as a writer. It’s a perplexing thought because, deep down, I understand that becoming a writer is as simple as committing to the act of writing. In fact, you can even do it while standing at your computer, much like I am right now. My fingers glide effortlessly across the keyboard, and my mind is buzzing with thoughts on how I can weave together everything I’ve learned this year to craft a post that captivates you.

Writing is about much more than just the mechanics of grammar, punctuation, or choosing the appropriate tone. It’s about transcending the ordinary and transporting the reader to another world. The essence of writing lies in the ability to unlock emotions, ignite imaginations, and evoke a sense of connection between the writer and the audience. The ultimate goal is to inspire you, dear reader, to not only engage with the text but to ignite your own passion for writing. More than just a mere exchange of words, it’s an invitation to explore your creativity and perhaps, even to aspire to put pen to paper or fingers to keys as I do now.

Just out of curiosity—have you ever been to Cinderella’s Royal Table at Disney’s Magic Kingdom?

If not, you definitely should consider it!

I was born and raised in Cuba, a vibrant yet complex small island in the Caribbean still governed by a communist system. Growing up, the concept of Disney World was completely foreign to me—an enchanting world beyond my imagination. When I moved to America at 24, visiting Disney didn’t even make it onto my bucket list; perhaps I would have considered a water park, but not the dazzling realms of Disney.

However, fate had other plans, and I found myself stepping into the magic of Disney before my daughter was born. I can sincerely say that it is a place where dreams take flight. Now, as a parent, I've had the incredible opportunity to take my child to experience the majestic royal castle, a wish she has held close to her heart. As she turns 10 this year, the royal castle is her chosen destination. Experiencing Disney through her wide, sparkling eyes has made each moment even more profound and magical.

Let me take you back to the day my husband, my daughter, and I gathered around a table together in that enchanting kingdom. With a reservation secured for 10:00 am, we arrived promptly, anticipation bubbling in the air. My daughter strolled through the restaurant's entrance, gliding down a luxurious red carpet, the wonder lighting up her face as she prepared for her photo with Cinderella.

The magic truly began as we settled into a quaint little table nestled in the corner of the restaurant, a perfect vantage point to watch the vibrant parade of visitors and the graceful birds soaring above us. Normally, I would reach for a simple American coffee, but in that whimsical moment, I decided to indulge and ordered a cappuccino instead. The waiter’s surprised glance seemed to say, “You’re not French!”—and I chuckled to myself. It was a delightful snapshot of the moment's exuberance.

For those brief seconds, I felt as though I had stepped into a fairytale, as though we were a legitimate royal family, enveloped in a joyous narrative. Although the day centered around my daughter's sheer happiness—she was radiant and fully immersed in the enchantment of it all—I wanted to express how deeply I felt in that experience. As I've mentioned, this was never a dream I had imagined pursuing; I had never even known of Cinderella’s Royal Table or the magic of dining alongside princesses.

All I know is that true magic exists, even if it graces us with its presence for only a fleeting moment in our lives. I sincerely hope that one day you can sip a cup of coffee at Cinderella’s Royal Table. Most importantly, I hope that you, too, come to believe that Disney is indeed a magical place—if you open your heart to it.

Thank you and happy reading.

Mory Carballo

Maga Angelo once said

“You only are free when you realize you belong no place — you belong every place — no place at all.”

No needs for motivation.

I’ve been taking myself on a quiet journey of no motivation. What do I mean by that? For years I ran on caffeine and rituals—convinced that if that single drop of coffee didn’t hit my brain, I simply couldn’t function. Apparently, I was wrong. I’ve come to realize that, after a certain age and with the weight of real responsibilities, you can’t depend solely on a cup of coffee, a fleeting motivational podcast, or scrolling through memes for energy.

You have to be disciplined enough to accept that you are the only you can be and build the habits that let that person show up every day.

Are you a Writer.

Don’t you think we are all born writers?

Look at the Bible (John 1:1): “In the beginning was the Word...” You can read the whole verse and interpret it however you want to. Nevertheless, I bring you that line: “In the beginning was the Word...” There have always been many forms of communication since the very beginning.

Now look at this, the Word was in the very beginning.

That phrase means words have carried meaning from the dawn of time.

Writing, for me, has always been a form of communication. Little did I know that what I understood was more than just expression—it has been an antidote to my own pain.

You go to the doctor when you are in physical pain. But I couldn’t go to the doctor to talk about my personal problems, my financial worries, or the homesickness I was feeling. I had to find my own ways to cope with these challenges. Music, writing, reading, and dancing have always been soothing to my spirit. I hope you, too, find ways to cope.

…Bait

I don't know about you, but I do love fishing. Let me clarify: I love the idea of having a beer, good music, and great company while out on the water. That's what fishing means to me—good beer, a nice boat, a camera to try and capture nature, and the chance to go fish.

However, this time I'm not referring to actual fishing. Did you know there's a phrase called "rage bait"? It was chosen as Oxford's word of the year for 2025.

Exploring this concept reveals a situation many of us are familiar with: being manipulated, often starting from a young age by family members, and later by coworkers, partners, and others.

So how can we address these issues? In today's digital world, we might find ourselves used as bait—posting and reposting certain topics until we fall into the trap of "rage bait."

This can happen while driving, when road rage can be triggered. It can also occur at family gatherings, where arguments can escalate thanks to "rage fight bait."

I know it's challenging to be aware of all these traps, but remember, you don't have to take the bait. Be yourself. If you accidentally find yourself caught in the rage trap, remember—you can always break free, just like the stories of a man swallowed by a whale and later spit out. You, too, can escape that harmful rage trap.

Happy reading!

Once upon a time.

…….Once upon a time, I thought my new life was boring—a stay-at-home mom, a wife, always helping my husband, who never seemed to appreciate my work. Helping my daughter with her never-ending homework and projects, and tackling the math I never understood in college, which I now have the chance to relearn. Also, learning American history—which, by the way, I loved.

Every day, nonstop: the cleaning, the cooking, the never-ending laundry. The family drama —the spiritual balancing act that feels like a role too significant for anyone—even with God on your side, you’ve made it this far; we’re getting to the real business.

I'm not going to be one of those people who wait for life to crash down on me more than once before I say I'm grateful. My life is a beautiful mess. I'm an immigrant who came to America with so much to accomplish and so much to prove to my family. I’ve achieved more than I ever imagined. I am happy every day, oh baby. I need so much coffee, a margarita, some music here and there, and my convertible.

However, I’m here every day, giving it my all. I am not faking anything. If I tell you I love you, I mean that. If I am angry, I’ll probably avoid talking to you for a while. So, I will say something I’ll regret later.

…But as my mother said, I soon forget.

But make no mistake—now, more than ever, I know that life is more than just a magical ride.

Have you ever felt regret after publishing a book—especially a memoir?

Have you ever felt a pang of regret after publishing a book—especially a memoir? That moment when you think, “Maybe I shouldn’t have put my personal life out there for everyone to see.”

But then, as time passes, you realize that sharing your story was one of the bravest and most meaningful things you could have done. Because you held the pen. You wrote your truth. You faced your pain, shaped your own narrative, and became the master of your story.

Along the way, there will always be people who profit from our pain or pass judgment without ever really knowing us. But when you’re bold enough to write and publish your own memoir, you take that power back. No one can shame you for your scars—they’re part of your journey, and you told that story yourself.

I hope you like me, hold your own pen, and, if I might say, own your own pain while you write your own story.

Happy Reading always to you.

As it turns out, life is more than just a magical ride.

As it turns out, life is more than just a magical ride, offering unexpected challenges and quiet, everyday wonders alike.

Emotional Journey

I have been misunderstood and mistrusted my whole life. I have witnessed so much injustice—especially psychological injustice. I saw my father fighting so many demons, battles he didn’t even understand himself.I absorbed my father’s pain; in many ways, I am still carrying it, even though he is no longer here. One day, while watching a show on TV, a Chris Rock Netflix special, “Selective Outrage.” “The show was not to make us laugh, but to me, a free therapy service, “ Chris Rock said I am not a victim, baby.”

Since that day, I have carried those words with me: I am not a victim. Sometimes, I find myself in the wrong places with the wrong people—sometimes out of naivety, sometimes because I think I know the outcome, and sometimes just by being myself. But as long as I hold on to my sanity, my mind, and my soul—and keep moving forward with new goals, new ideas, sometimes smiling, sometimes crying, but always continuing—that is what truly matters.

“Phenomenon."

The genesis of imposter syndrome can be traced back to 1978, when psychologists Pauline Rose Clance and Suzanne Imes introduced the term. It's intriguing that they didn't label it a "syndrome," but rather a "phenomenon."

Key points

• Imposter syndrome is not a psychiatric condition, but it is a real problem.

• Imposter feelings are associated with self-doubt..

• Imposter feelings are associated with depression, anxiety..

• Imposter feelings are associated with decreased job performance and an increased risk of burnout.

Book on Impostor Syndrome

The Imposter Syndrome Solution: Breaking the Pattern of Self-Doubt (Anxiety Breakthrough) Paperback – July 14, 2025

by Andreas Sun (Author)

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Rebels, yes, rebels!

We need more and more writers, painters, singers, and free thinkers.

Rebels, yes, rebels!

These are the ones who have changed the world from the very beginning. History is full of stories of those individuals, even on the battlefield in the midst of war. Bring more and more of your art to the table.

Technology and new AI are the greatest tools we have at our disposal.

Don’t be used by it—use it to amplify your voice.

Do's and Don'ts at your First Book Signing.

Number One Don't

Financial Mistake

At my first book signing, I made a costly mistake by overspending—one I hope you can avoid. Whether you're preparing for your first signing, launching a business, releasing music, or exhibiting art, remember this:

No matter your budget, it's crucial to set limits and stick to them from the very start.

Book Signing Expenses:

Books: $400.00

Pen: $60.00

Posters: $200.00

Gift Basket: $50.00

Photography: $200.00

Tablecloth: $50.00

Assistant: $250.00

Square Card Paid Machine: $59.00

Advertising on the radio station in Sarasota cost me : $150 .00

Do at your first book signing

Invite friends and family. You may hesitate at first, especially if some relationships feel complicated or uncomfortable. But as time passes, you’ll treasure these memories. Celebrating your achievement with loved ones creates moments no one can take from you, and most people never experience. Years from now, you’ll be glad they were there to share in your success. It has been four years since I self-published the memoir Born Again In America. A nation Where Dreams still come true. These are some memories I am still contemplating.

Note: I’m excited to invite you to check out my upcoming YouTube channel, where I’ll be streaming engaging content inspired by this blog.

You won’t want to miss it!

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Before the year ends .

Every year, I am most grateful to be able to write and publish a memoir. As an immigrant who saw America through my father's eyes, I know this country differently from the stories Hollywood sells. From the time I was a little girl, my father showed me The Real America—a place built on hard work, quiet kindness, sacrifice, and the daily striving of ordinary people.

America is a great country, not because it is flawless, but because it is full of possibilities, resilience, and the chance to remake a life. My memoir honors that truth: the small acts of courage, the lessons learned at kitchen tables and on long drives, and the vision my father carried for me. Writing these memories each year is my way of saying thank you to him and to the country that allowed our dreams to grow., I see America differently. I don't see the America Hollywood sells. I see the real place my father wanted for me, when I was a little girl, The Real America. America is a great country.

Another Day

Another day. I don't think it's just another day for you — it feels different, meaningful in ways you might not notice at first. Even so, there is so much beauty around us if we open our eyes and hearts. I know sometimes it's hard to find, because true beauty comes from the inside out — not from a movie, but from your heart and your spirit. The clean, uncontaminated, unpolluted spirit we sometimes must protect and carry with care. Let's take a moment to be grateful for this day and for the quiet gifts it brings.